Frequently Asked Questions
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The Soulmate anointing oil is a ritual oil designed for those seeking emotionally aligned, authentic, and deeply compatible romantic connections rather than temporary attraction. It works by attuning your romantic frequency to the specific energetic signature of genuine compatibility and emotional alignment rather than attraction in general, calling in what genuinely fits rather than what is simply available and interested.
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Soulmate can be used to anoint your jewelry before wearing, a candle for a deep compatibility or lasting love working, a detailed petition describing the emotional alignment and values of the connection you are calling in, yourself directly at the wrists, heart center, and soles of the feet as a grounding daily frequency anchor, bath water for releasing the pattern of settling for surface-level compatibility, or a love altar or vision to keep the soulmate frequency specifically attuned between sessions.
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The Soulmate oil opens with fresh blooming florals that carry genuine openness without urgency or charge, grounded by creamy sandalwood that gives the fragrance more weight and staying power than lighter floral versions. It is steady and compatible rather than instantly dazzling and was chosen specifically because it smells like something built to last rather than a passing bloom.
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Come To Me works on the atmospheric, magnetic frequency of initial romantic draw and new connection. Love Spell works on the warmer, more playful frequency of romance and affection. Soulmate works on the deepest and most patient frequency of the three, specifically the emotional alignment, authentic compatibility, and lasting connection that comes from calling in what genuinely fits rather than what is simply exciting or immediately available.
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Q: Should I use this oil if I want results quickly?
The Soulmate Anointing Oil from House of Cleo Devine is a ritual oil designed for those seeking emotionally aligned, authentic, and deeply compatible romantic connections rather than temporary attraction. It is part of The Love & Attraction Collection, the House of Cleo Devine line built around the specific frequencies of romantic draw, genuine connection, and the energetic conditions that allow love and meaningful relationship to find you at full signal strength. Where Come To Me draws initial magnetic attention and Love Spell invites warm affectionate romance, Soulmate works on the deepest frequency in the collection, the specific energetic quality of genuine compatibility, emotional alignment, and the kind of connection that was always meant to last because it was built on something that goes far beneath the surface.
The scent was chosen specifically for this oil because fragrance is one of the most direct pathways to energetic frequency, and Soulmate needed to smell like something built to last. Fresh blooming florals arrive with a genuine, open quality that carries none of the urgency or charged electricity of Come To Me's dark rose, grounded by creamy sandalwood that gives the fragrance more weight and staying power than Pink Moon's dewier, lighter version of the same floral foundation. The wood keeps the florals from feeling fleeting or purely seasonal, evoking something built to remain rather than a passing bloom, something steady and compatible rather than instantly dazzling. It is meant to feel like the specific quality of someone whose presence does not fade when the novelty does, whose depth reveals itself slowly and consistently, who feels more right the longer you know them rather than less. It smells like the morning after the first night you knew. It smells like someone you are going to keep choosing.
What this oil does:
Anointing oils work by combining intention-specific botanical and fragrance properties with the ritual act of application, turning every intentional use into an active energetic practice. The Soulmate oil is blended to work on the specific frequency of deep romantic alignment, the energetic state in which what you are broadcasting is not simply the signal of availability or attraction but the much more specific signal of someone who is ready for a connection that is genuinely, authentically, and durably compatible with who she actually is rather than who she performs in early relationship. It works on the alignment channel, attuning your frequency to the specific energetic signature of your most genuinely compatible match rather than to attraction in general, narrowing the signal so that what arrives is more aligned and less simply interested. It works on the authentic connection layer, dissolving the energetic pattern of attracting connections that are exciting at the surface but misaligned at the depth, and replacing it with the frequency of someone who is clear enough about who she is and what she genuinely needs that only what truly fits can find her. It works on the emotional compatibility frequency, creating the energetic conditions in which the person you are calling in carries the specific emotional availability, maturity, and relational capacity that your most genuine self actually requires rather than what your less discerning self has sometimes settled for. It works on the lasting love channel, attuning your romantic intention to the long arc of connection rather than the short one, so that what arrives is built to remain rather than to dazzle briefly and then disappoint. Applied consistently, it keeps the energetic properties of your crystal piece working at full soulmate frequency rather than the more general attraction frequency that draws widely rather than deeply.
How Do I Use This Oil?
Soulmate is a patient and deeply intentional ritual oil and can be used in multiple ways depending on your practice and the specific depth of romantic alignment you are calling in.
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Apply a small amount to your fingertip and anoint the pendant or beads of your necklace or bracelet before putting it on. As you apply the oil, be specific about the quality of alignment rather than the fact of attraction. What emotional depth are you calling in? What genuine compatibility are you ready for? What values and ways of being in the world do you want to share with the person who is coming?
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Apply the oil from base to tip of an unlit candle while holding your deep compatibility and lasting connection intention, then light it and allow the Soulmate working to hold space as it burns. Pink, white, or deep red candles carry the most aligned frequency for this working.
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Write a thorough, specific description of the emotional alignment, values, and relational qualities of the person you are calling in, apply the oil to the corners, and fold it toward you as you seal the soulmate frequency into the working. Specificity is the most important element of this particular petition.
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Apply to your wrists, heart center, and the soles of your feet as a grounding daily frequency anchor, carrying the patient, deeply aligned romantic energy through the day as a sensory reminder of what you are genuinely calling in and why it is worth being specific about.
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Add a few drops to warm bath water and soak with the intention of releasing the pattern of settling for surface-level compatibility, the habit of accepting exciting but misaligned connections because something was better than nothing, and emerging as the version of yourself whose signal is specific enough and clear enough to call in only what genuinely, deeply fits.
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Apply to the corners of a written description of your most genuinely compatible relationship or to any love altar you maintain, keeping the soulmate frequency active and specifically attuned between deliberate ritual sessions.
This oil pairs with:
The Soulmate Anointing Oil is specifically designed to pair with the Soulmate ritual service and the deep connection and heart chakra crystal pieces in the collection, including the Moonstone Cube Bead Bracelet, the Rose Quartz pieces in the collection, and the Pink Tourmaline Cube Bead Bracelet. Within The Love & Attraction Collection it is the deepest and most patient of the oils, working on a longer timeline than Come To Me or Love Spell and producing connections that are more genuinely aligned rather than more immediately numerous. It pairs powerfully with Venus Rising from The Glamour Collection for those who want both the broad Venus frequency of love and beauty and the more specifically targeted deep compatibility frequency of Soulmate working simultaneously.
Scent profile:
Steady, blooming, and genuinely lasting. Fresh florals on the opening with a genuine openness that is neither charged nor fleeting, grounded by creamy sandalwood that gives the fragrance more weight and staying power than lighter floral versions, evoking something built to remain rather than a passing bloom. Steady and compatible rather than instantly dazzling. It smells like the morning after the first night you knew. It smells like someone you are going to keep choosing.
Care and use notes:
For external use only. Avoid contact with eyes. Patch test before use if you have sensitive skin. Keep away from direct sunlight and heat to preserve the fragrance and botanical integrity of the oil. When using in bath water, use sparingly. When anointing candles, apply before lighting and never leave burning candles unattended.
This oil is for you if:
You are done with connections that are exciting at the surface and disappointing at the depth, and you are ready to call in something that is genuinely, authentically, and durably compatible with who you actually are rather than who you perform in the early stages of a relationship. You want a ritual oil that works on the specific frequency of deep emotional alignment rather than general attraction, narrowing what you are calling in so that what arrives is more deeply right rather than simply more immediately present. You are drawn to a steady, blooming floral and creamy sandalwood fragrance as a daily sensory anchor for the patient, deeply intentional frequency of someone who knows exactly what kind of love she is calling in and is willing to wait for the one that genuinely fits. You want to gift the deepest and most genuinely intentional oil in The Love & Attraction Collection to someone who is done settling for almost right and is ready for the real thing.

