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Frequently Asked Questions
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The Come To Me anointing oil is a ritual oil designed to attract new romantic opportunities, encourage meaningful connections, and amplify your natural magnetism when meeting new people. It works by broadcasting the specific frequency of genuine openness combined with magnetic mystery, creating the energetic conditions in which the right connections are pulled toward you rather than passing by without registering the signal.
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Come To Me can be used to anoint your jewelry before wearing, a candle for an attraction working, yourself directly at the wrists, collarbone, and behind the ears before any social or romantic situation, a petition for the quality of connection you are calling in, bath water for releasing guardedness and emerging at full magnetic frequency, or a photo or love altar to keep the come-to-me frequency active between ritual sessions.
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The Come To Me oil is deep velvety rose that carries darkness and atmospheric depth rather than sweetness or daylight simplicity, grounded by a warm slightly smoky base that adds genuine mystery and the specific quality of attraction felt before it is understood. It is the most atmospheric and nighttime-leaning scent in The Love & Attraction Collection and was chosen specifically because it smells like someone worth crossing the room for.
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Come To Me is designed to work on the frequency of attraction broadly, drawing the right romantic connections and opportunities toward you rather than being directed at a specific named individual. For best results, set your intention around the quality of connection and relationship you are calling in rather than a specific person, as working with a frequency rather than a name allows the oil to draw what is genuinely most aligned with you rather than only what you can currently imagine.
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The Come To Me anointing oil pairs with the love and attraction crystal pieces in the House of Cleo Devine collection, including the Pink Tourmaline Cube Bead Bracelet, the Moonstone Cube Bead Bracelet, and any Rose Quartz pieces in the collection. It is the opening oil of The Love & Attraction Collection and pairs powerfully with Venus Rising from The Glamour Collection for a complete romantic frequency practice.
The scent was chosen specifically for this oil because fragrance is one of the most direct pathways to energetic frequency, and Honeyed Hearts needed to smell like the kind of love that does not need to be exciting to be real. Golden honey blends with soft vanilla and warm musk into something that is rounder, cozier, and more genuinely nurturing than Love Spell's sparkling brightness, built to feel like patience and kindness rather than excitement or attraction. It is one of the gentlest and least assertive scents in the entire collection, carrying none of the drama of Come To Me's smoky mystery or the charged playfulness of Love Spell, and everything of the warm, unhurried, deeply human quality of someone who has decided to lead with kindness as a matter of consistent daily practice rather than occasional grand gesture. It smells like the version of love that shows up on a Tuesday. It smells like someone who stayed.
What this oil does:
Anointing oils work by combining intention-specific botanical and fragrance properties with the ritual act of application, turning every intentional use into an active energetic practice. The Honeyed Hearts oil is blended to work on the specific frequency of loving relational warmth, the daily, patient, empathetic current of genuine kindness through which the most durable and meaningful connections are built and sustained. It works on the kindness channel, softening the energetic edges of interactions that have become tense, impatient, or reactive and restoring the warmer, more generous relational frequency that allows people to feel genuinely safe and valued in your presence. It works on the patience layer, dissolving the specific energetic quality of urgency and frustration that accumulates in close relationships over time and replacing it with the slower, more grounded frequency of someone who understands that the most important things cannot be rushed. It works on the empathy frequency, opening your capacity to genuinely feel and understand the experience of the people you love rather than simply responding to the surface of what they present, which is what distinguishes communication that connects from communication that merely exchanges information. It works on the loving communication channel, shifting the energetic quality of your relational exchanges toward warmth, clarity, and genuine mutual understanding rather than defensiveness, distance, or the kind of half-expressed feeling that accumulates into distance over time. Applied consistently, it keeps the energetic properties of your crystal piece working at full honeyed-hearts frequency rather than contracting back into the reactive, defended relational mode that erodes even genuinely loving connections from the inside.
How Do I Use This Oil?
Come To Me is a powerful attraction ritual oil and can be used in multiple ways depending on your practice and the specific romantic and relational intentions you are working on.
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Apply a small amount to your fingertip and anoint the pendant or beads of your necklace or bracelet before putting it on. As you apply the oil, set your intention from the frequency of someone who is genuinely, openly available to be found rather than someone still deciding whether to let herself be seen.
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Apply the oil from base to tip of an unlit candle while holding your attraction intention, then light it and allow the Come To Me working to hold space as it burns. Red or deep pink candles carry the most aligned frequency for this working.
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Write your intention for the quality of connection you are calling in, the specific frequency of person or relationship rather than a specific individual, and apply the oil to the corners, sealing the come-to-me frequency into the working.
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Add a few drops to warm bath water and soak with the intention of releasing guardedness, past romantic disappointment, and the subtle energetic residue of connections that did not work out, and emerging as the version of yourself who is genuinely, magnetically, openly available to be found.
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Apply to the corners of a photo of yourself at your most magnetic or to any love altar or intention space you maintain, keeping the come-to-me frequency active and working between deliberate ritual sessions.
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Apply to your wrists, the inside of your elbows, your collarbone, or behind your ears before any social situation, date, event, or moment where you want your natural magnetism to be fully operational and clearly broadcast.
This oil pairs with:
The Come To Me Anointing Oil is specifically designed to pair with the Come To Me ritual service and the love and attraction crystal pieces in the collection, including the Pink Tourmaline Cube Bead Bracelet, the Rose Quartz pieces in the collection, and the Moonstone Cube Bead Bracelet. Within The Love & Attraction Collection it is the opening oil, specifically for drawing new romantic opportunities and initial magnetic connection. It pairs powerfully with Venus Rising from The Glamour Collection for those who want both the deeper romantic and creative Venus frequency and the more specifically targeted new-connection magnetism of Come To Me working simultaneously.
Scent profile:
Deep, velvety, and atmospherically magnetic. Rich rose on the opening that carries depth and darkness rather than sweetness or daylight simplicity, grounded by a warm, slightly smoky base that adds genuine mystery and the specific quality of attraction that is felt before it is understood. The most atmospheric and nighttime-leaning scent in The Love & Attraction Collection. It does not smell like innocence. It smells like someone worth crossing the room for. It smells like the beginning of something.
Care and use notes:
For external use only. Avoid contact with eyes. Patch test before use if you have sensitive skin. Keep away from direct sunlight and heat to preserve the fragrance and botanical integrity of the oil. When using in bath water, use sparingly. When anointing candles, apply before lighting and never leave burning candles unattended.
This oil is for you if:
You are genuinely, actively open to new romantic connection and want a daily ritual oil that amplifies and broadcasts that openness at the frequency level so that the right people can find you at full signal strength rather than having to work against the subtle static of guardedness or resignation. You want a ritual oil that works across your full love and attraction practice, jewelry, candles, petitions, self-anointing, bath rituals, and love altars, carrying the come-to-me frequency into every touchpoint of your romantic intention. You are drawn to a deep, velvety rose fragrance with warm smoky mystery as a daily sensory anchor for the most magnetically attractive, genuinely open, and atmospherically compelling version of yourself. You want to gift the most atmospherically magnetic oil in The Love & Attraction Collection to someone who is ready for new romantic connection and deserves a daily ritual that keeps their signal clear, strong, and genuinely, irresistibly findable.
