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You are done with them. You know you are done with them. And still they are there, in the back of your thoughts when you are trying to sleep, in the way certain songs or smells bring it all back without warning, in the heaviness that settles in your chest when something reminds you of what you are trying to leave behind. You have made the decision. What has not caught up yet is your energy field, which is still holding them as though the relationship never ended.
That is not weakness. That is not obsession. That is what uncut energetic cords do, they keep the connection alive in your body long after your mind has made its peace with letting go. And until those cords are addressed at the level where they actually live, the freedom you are working toward stays just out of reach.
The Toxic Ex Banishing Spell at House of Cleo Devine is a personalized distance banishing ritual performed by Cleo Devine using herbs, candles, and focused protective energy work to remove the lingering presence of a toxic ex from your energy field, cut the emotional and energetic cords still connecting you, cleanse your aura and space of their residual influence, and restore the personal power, clarity, and peace that their continued energetic presence has been costing you.
This is not holding on. This is the work of truly letting go.
What this ritual includes:
A personalized banishing ritual performed on your behalf with full sacred intention, using herbs, candles, and protective energy work focused specifically on removing your ex's energetic presence from your field and your life. Intuitive energy clearing targeting the specific cords, attachments, and residual influence still connecting you to them, the emotional threads that keep you cycling back through the same feelings, the energetic hooks that drain your peace, and the psychic weight of a connection that your body has not yet registered as over. A closing message delivered after the ritual sharing any impressions, signs, or intuitive guidance that came through during the session. Optional aftercare suggestions to support you in maintaining your energetic freedom and preventing the connection from reestablishing itself in your field.
What this ritual clears:
The lingering attachment and emotional cords binding your energy to theirs are severed and dissolved. The negative energy their presence, their memory, and their continued influence has left in your aura and your personal space is cleared completely. The hold they have had on your thoughts, your emotional state, and your forward movement is released at the energetic root rather than managed at the surface. Your confidence, your clarity, and your sense of yourself as a complete and whole person outside of that relationship are restored. The space their energy was occupying in your field is freed, genuinely freed, for healing, for new love, and for the aligned opportunities that have been waiting on the other side of this release.
How to book: After your order provide your name and date of birth and your ex's name and date of birth. Photos are optional but welcome. Share your intention for the ritual — what specifically you want released, what you want restored, and anything about the dynamic or the ending that feels relevant to the work. Cleo will prepare and perform your banishing ritual within your selected timeframe and send you a message when the session begins and a closing message with insights and guidance when it is complete.
This ritual is for you if: You made the decision to leave or accept the end of this relationship and your energy field has not caught up yet. You feel your ex's presence, energy, or influence in your daily life in ways that are disrupting your peace, your sleep, or your ability to move forward. You are an empath or highly sensitive person who absorbed your ex's energy deeply during the relationship and can still feel it in your system. You are ready to stop carrying the energetic cost of a relationship that is already over and reclaim the full strength of your own field.
You have already done the hardest part. This ritual does the rest.
Frequently Asked Questions
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A banishing spell and a cord cutting ritual both work to remove unwanted energetic connections and restore your field — but they operate with different focus and intention. A cord cutting ritual severs the specific energetic cords between two people and clears the attachment at its root. A banishing spell goes a step further by actively removing the person's energetic presence, influence, and residual imprint from your field and your space — not just cutting the cord but clearing everything that presence left behind and establishing a firm energetic boundary that keeps it out going forward. For situations involving a toxic ex whose energy is persistently present in your body, your thoughts, and your space, a banishing spell provides the complete removal and boundary-setting that cord cutting alone may not fully achieve.
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Feeling your ex's energy after a relationship ends — particularly a toxic or intensely emotional one — is not a failure of your healing or a sign that you still want them. It is the natural result of uncut energetic cords that were formed during the relationship and have not been addressed since it ended. These cords keep the energetic connection active regardless of the physical or emotional distance between you, which is why you can feel them in your body, in your thoughts, and in your emotional state long after you have consciously processed the end. The cords exist at the energetic level and require energetic work to dissolve — time and conscious intention alone are often not sufficient to fully clear them.
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Yes. Part of the energetic work in a banishing spell addresses the energetic cords from their side of the connection as well as yours — the attachment they are maintaining to your field through their thoughts, their contact attempts, or their continued emotional investment in the relationship. Cutting and clearing those cords and establishing a firm energetic boundary around your field makes it harder for their energy to reach you and can produce a noticeable shift in the frequency and intensity of their attempts to reconnect. Many clients report that their ex becomes significantly quieter, more distant, or simply less present in their awareness after a banishing ritual even without any direct communication about the end of contact.
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Traditional banishing herbs used in this type of ritual include black pepper for clearing and protection, rue for breaking attachments and removing negative influence, agrimony for reversal and sending energy back, and rosemary for clearing residual energy and restoring personal clarity. Black candles are used for banishing and removal work and white candles for aura cleansing and restoration. The specific combination of tools used in your ritual is determined by what comes through as most relevant to your situation and what Cleo's practice indicates is most effective for the specific dynamic you are working to clear. Your petition — your name, your ex's name, and your stated intention — anchors the work to your specific situation throughout the ritual.
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Many clients notice an initial shift within the first twenty-four to forty-eight hours following the ritual — a physical lightness, a reduction in the frequency of intrusive thoughts about their ex, or a noticeable decrease in the emotional activation that thinking about them previously produced. The deeper clearing — the restoration of genuine energetic peace, the felt sense of having your field fully back, and the opening of space for new experiences — typically builds over the following one to three weeks as the banishing takes full effect and your field stabilizes at its new baseline. The closing message and aftercare suggestions delivered after your ritual support you through this integration period.