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You are not asking for something that is not yours. You are not reaching for something out of desperation. You are a person who knows what they want, who they want, and who is ready to stop waiting for love to find its way to them without any help. Southern folk magic has always understood something that modern culture forgot — that desire is sacred, intention is power, and there is nothing wrong with calling what you want directly to you.
The Come To Me Honey Jar is a traditional Southern folk magic conjure working performed by Cleo Devine on your behalf. Rooted in Hoodoo tradition and built on the foundational spiritual technology of the honey jar, this working uses honey to sweeten the heart and mind of your target, rose petals to open the energetic pathway of love and beauty, lodestone to create an irresistible magnetic pull between you and the person you are calling in, and the sacred words of Psalm 45 — the psalm of love, beauty, and the beloved — to anchor the working in divine authority and spiritual power.
This is not a passive wish. This is an active, intentional conjure working performed in sacred space with full spiritual integrity and care.
What this working includes:
The Honey Jar Honey is the foundational tool of sweetening work in Southern folk magic. It draws sweetness, warmth, and favorable disposition toward you from the person whose name goes into the jar. Your target's name is written and placed inside the jar along with your petition, sealing your intention in honey so their thoughts of you become sweet, their heart softens toward you, and the conditions between you become favorable for love to grow.
Rose Petals Rose petals are the oldest love drawing ingredient in folk magic tradition. They carry the frequency of Venus, of romantic love, of beauty and desire. Added to the honey jar, they amplify the love and attraction current of the working and open the spiritual pathway between you and the person you are calling in.
Lodestone Lodestone is a naturally magnetic stone used in Hoodoo tradition specifically to draw — to pull what you want toward you with irresistible magnetic force. Its presence in this working creates a living spiritual magnet between you and your target, strengthening the drawing power of the honey jar and keeping the pull active and building over time.
Psalm 45 Psalm 45 is the sacred love psalm — written for the beloved, speaking of beauty, desire, and the anointing of love. It is one of the most powerful spiritual anchors for love work in the conjure tradition. Prayed over your jar with your full petition and intention, it calls divine authority into the working and elevates it beyond a simple candle or petition into something spiritually alive and continuously working.
Red Candle Work A red candle dressed and burned over your honey jar feeds the working with the fire of passion, desire, and active love energy. Red is the color of romantic love, physical attraction, and the burning desire that draws two people together.
How it works: At checkout provide your name, date of birth, and the first and last name and date of birth of the person you want to draw to you. A photo of each of you is welcome but not required. Cleo will set your jar, pray your petition, burn your candle, and tend the working in sacred space. You will receive a digital report within your selected delivery timeframe covering how the working was performed and any intuitive impressions that came through during the session.
This working is for you if: You have feelings for someone specific and want to open the door for those feelings to be returned. You want to draw a new love into your life who matches your heart's desire. You have been patient long enough and are ready to add some spiritual fire to what you are calling in. You believe in the power of intention, prayer, and the old ways of working with what the earth provides.
Love has always been worth working for. House of Cleo Devine honors that truth with every jar that is set.
Frequently Asked Questions
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A Come To Me honey jar is one of the most foundational and time-honored workings in Southern Hoodoo conjure tradition. It is a sweetening and drawing spell — a petition placed inside a jar of honey along with botanicals and curios chosen for their specific spiritual drawing properties, sealed in sweetness so the target's thoughts, feelings, and actions move naturally and favorably toward the petitioner. The honey sweetens, the rose petals open the love current, the lodestone creates magnetic pull, and Psalm 45 anchors the entire working in sacred divine authority. The jar is then fed regularly with dressed candle work to keep the working alive and continuously building in power.
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No. Honey jar sweetening work in the Hoodoo tradition is a drawing and opening practice rather than a controlling one. It works to sweeten the emotional and energetic conditions between two people, warm the target's natural feelings toward the petitioner, and create favorable spiritual circumstances for love to grow. It opens doors — it does not override the genuine nature of a person or manufacture feelings that have no natural root. It is no more coercive than presenting yourself beautifully, creating the right circumstances, or praying for love to find its way to you.
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Psalm 45 is known in the Hoodoo conjure tradition as the love psalm. Its words speak of the beloved, of beauty and desire, of being anointed with the oil of gladness and adorned for love. In Southern folk magic specific psalms are prayed over workings to invoke their spiritual frequency and align the petition with divine power. Psalm 45 is used in love and attraction work because its sacred language carries the living frequency of divine romantic love and calls that frequency directly into the working it is prayed over.
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Honey jar workings are living, ongoing spells that build in power over time as the jar is regularly fed with candle work and prayer. Initial shifts — renewed contact, softened energy, increased warmth or attention from the target — are often noticed within the first two to four weeks. Deeper results including the development of genuine romantic connection typically unfold over one to three months depending on the specific situation and the energetic distance between the two people involved. The working opens and sweetens the spiritual conditions — the petitioner's own presence, action, and intention in the physical world work alongside it.
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DIGITAL SERVICE - PDF DELIVERED TO YOUR EMAIL
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This is a DIGITAL service. You will receive a PDF file via email or Etsy messages. NO physical items will be shipped to you.
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WHAT YOU GET
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☆ 45 minute distance reiki session focused on body image and self acceptance
☆ Energy work to help you love and accept your physical body
☆ Detailed PDF report of the session and what was healed
☆ Personalized suggestions for your specific body image struggles
☆ Affirmations and practices to build love for your body
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HOW IT WORKS
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Purchase this digital service and provide your full name
I will perform a distance reiki session to heal body image wounds and boost self acceptance
You receive a PDF file via Etsy messages or email within 48 hours
Download and save your PDF to keep forever
Follow the personalized suggestions included just for you
Start seeing your body with more love and kindness every day
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DELIVERY METHOD
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☽ PDF file sent to your Etsy messages
☽ Also emailed if you provide email address
☽ NO physical product will be mailed
☽ Instant download once ready
☽ Save to your phone, computer, or tablet
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WHO THIS IS FOR
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◯ You struggle to accept or love how your body looks
◯ You compare yourself to others and always feel less than
◯ You want to feel confident and beautiful in your own skin
◯ You are ready to heal negative thoughts about your appearance
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WHY CHOOSE THIS DIGITAL SERVICE
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★ Fast digital delivery - no waiting for mail
★ Private PDF you can read anytime
★ Heal the root causes of body image issues
★ Build genuine love and acceptance for your body
★ Get personalized suggestions made just for your struggles
★ Feel beautiful and confident without changing yourself
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WHAT I NEED FROM YOU
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Your full name (first and last)
Brief description of your body image struggles (weight, scars, skin, aging, specific features, etc.)
Any specific events or experiences that hurt your body confidence (you do not need to share details)
Please provide this information in your order notes or message me after purchase.
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DELIVERY TIME
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Your PDF will be delivered
☾ Digital PDF file - NO shipping time needed
☾ Delivered directly to you electronically
☾ Most sessions completed within 1-2 days
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IMPORTANT NOTES
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✗ This is NOT a physical product - nothing will be shipped
✓ You receive a digital PDF file only
✓ Delivered via Etsy messages and/or email
✓ Download and save your PDF immediately
✓ Private and confidential digital service
✗ No refunds on completed digital services (work cannot be undone)
✓ For entertainment purposes only
✓ Compatible with all devices (phone, tablet, computer)
✓ This does NOT replace therapy or treatment for eating disorders
✓ Please seek professional help if you have disordered eating or severe body dysmorphia
✓ This work helps heal energy blocks around self acceptance
✓ Learning to love your body is a journey that takes time
✓ Your body is worthy of love exactly as it is right now